To forbid is to define what is legal and/or accepted. Is it however limiting what is possible, or just implicitly recognizing the potential of what is possible?
 
 
Taking care of a dead person using rites contrary to the beliefs he had when he was alive, is it jeopardizing his well-being in the other world he believed in, or is it only a honest mistake than can be forgiven?
 
 
I am operating in the red, I am operating in the black, is finance only a question of colors?
 
 
Asking a question defines a topic to concentrate on, is it a good way to control the thoughts of others?
 
 
_As we get a ticket for illegal parking, could we pay a fee in advance and be allowed to park illegally?